Yes, it has been too long since the last post! I could spend valuable words on why, but let’s face it — during the two weeks in Indy I was catching up on all of Greece, etc. Then, off to St. Meinrad, then to Canada (both to appear at a later date — I’d like to say “soon”, but I’m not going to get your hopes up)! Therefore….
Dialing back to October 14….
The Cast — Siblings, plus one, plus….

The Siblings: Martha, Fran, Mary, Rick, Esther, John

Jeanette (John's wife)

Jessica Lynn (Mary's guinea pig)
The Place — Wasatch Lake


#3, Wasatch Lake

#3, WasatchLake, rear

Deck, #3
Visually set? I hope so.
Friday. We arrived in turn — Mary, hostess, along with John and Jeanette, co-hosts. You see, it was the Indy Siblings turn to organize this year’s gathering — place and dates (after consultation), food, games, outings, etc. So, it’s fitting that they arrived first. Wondrously, Martha (from Poplar Grove, IL), arrived next, while I followed in from Indy (I had things to do which detained me: packing!) Unloading was a great deal of fun — NOT! We did it with humor and tempered speed, befitting our approach to such and our growth in the number of circuits of the planet Earth around the Sun! We were not deterred by the stairs; we were challenged; and we conquered! And no one was injured — except for that pesky last step going down which alluded more than one of us; thus, human projectiles tumbled or vaulted out the back door until all became accustomed.

The long climb
Once settled into respective quarters, we just couldn’t stay inside! We seemed mesmerized, pavlovian if you will, in our movements toward lake, dock, hills and fallen leaves. After lingering, just taking it all in — breathing the fresh air, gazing at the fall colors and the water, breathing the fresh air, enjoying the crisp temperature, oh, and breathing the fresh air — we broke toward the cabin together for what one does after so much nature: preparing to eat!
There are those who prepare to eat, and there are those who eat. I attest, I was more impressed into the latter. Jeanette lounged with me, while John, Mary and Martha (yes, did you note earlier we have an evangelist, a listener and a busy bee among us?) prepared.

John, slicing and dicing

Martha, busy about many things

Mary, with the lettuce, taking it all in
Now, I ask you, if you look closely, the question arises: how many siblings does it take to prepare one salad?
We really did eat other foods; it’s just that the wonderful soup (a gift prepared and transported by Martha) was simmering, the bread was warming, and the Cheetos were safely in their packaging when these photos were taken. There were other goodies yet to arrive, since Fran and Esther (also known as Frances. Confused?) were yet to arrive (detained by an annual meeting at St. Mary-of-the-Woods for which Frances [also known as Esther], and now traveling to our remote hideaway in the dark).
As our father was wont to say, “One pig waits on another”. And so began our meal. The conversation was lively, the food excellent, and the warmth of the room enhanced by John’s ability to build a fire.

The night wanderers finally arrived, headlights piercing the darkness, drawing us all back down “those stairs” to happy meeting and swift invitation to eat. Though we early gatherers were sated, we did not spare our presence at the table, enjoying a continuation of conversation, memories and teasing. A fitting completion for our table was a wonderful apple pie, another gift which Martha had baked for us (yes, there were other pies our late-arrivers — Esther, that woman with two names, and Fran — had brought with them from Marilyn’s Bakery in Hobart, IN!)

Apple pie by Marth. Yummy!
Our conversation broke into smaller groupings, at table, around the fire, on the deck (the last who braved brisk temperatures to inhale air compressed through burning paper, tobacco, and filter material). Ironically, the conversations seemed to blend again into one. But soon enough, though games of Yahtzee or Farkel were proposed, the gaggle of Ginthers were of like mind — to bed, to rest, and to rise in the morning! And so we repaired to our rooms.
Saturday. The day began early for some, later for others. None of us are morning folk, never have been, never will be. Coffee is essential; relatively muted voices are expected; later risers are not cajoled for their somnolence. Breakfast was thus languid and self-serve, except for John’s sausage and eggs over the stove — which he shared (thanks, Bro!)
As this is a cabin with 7 humans sharing 2 bathrooms, our toilettes spanned some time. Some prepared to face the world (Martha) with full onslaught; others put on fresh clothes and a smart face; still one of us just dabbed here and there and pronounced “I’m ready”.
As this unfolded, those ready re-encountered the bucolic setting as we gathered to venture for a hike around the lake.

Mary and Esther below deck

John and Jeanette strolling
We set out together; actually, in two groups: the hearty (group #1), and the bold (group #2). The former were those challenged in some physical way who were going to do this hike no matter what; the latter were those not challenged physically who were going to do this hike no matter what, just more steps, rills and ridges. At the outset we came upon two pets of the place — pig and dog. Funny to be greeted by a tail-wagging dog of considerable size and strength, and a pot-bellied pig who from time-to-time (between snoring and snorting) actually walked on all fours!


The lake as we hiked
Hiking can be fun. With us, it is not only fun, but allows varied pairings for conversation just waiting to happen. And so we hiked so that we could listen, speak, and muse together of our life’s challenges, joys and questions. Natural shifting (re-partnering) occurred amidst stops along the way to admire some aspect of God’s creation or a need to pause (remember, we are older now). Eventually we arrived on the far-side (not Garry Larson’s version; although when you looked at us — go back to the opening picture — and considered the pig, the dog, and Jessica Lynn, how far were we from that side?) The lake was being whipped by a stiff breeze while we admired our accomplishment, gazed toward our temporary domain, and breathed (some, of course, filtered). A group photo by Fran was in order; we posed dutifully, and she did not lose her camera (with actual FILM in it!) to the waters.
Our return to #3 brought about a frenzy of activity — packing of picnic lunch, taking a nap (for me the height of frenzy this weekend), and checking for the best directions. Our destination: the Covered Bridge Festival in Parke County. Our challenge, as we were to discover, getting there!
Ok. Wasatch Lake Road to Owl Hollow Road, then right. At Indiana 42, left to Indiana 59. Right onto Indiana 59. (Are we there yet?) Pass over I-70, heading toward Brazil, heading north… Down a gully, over a rise, and then….
STOP! The tentacles of modern for-profit, not-for-profit and tax-exempt commerce reached deep into the bowels of Clay County, far from their source in Parke County, consuming (pun intended) all who would pass by (or hoped to pass) but couldn’t move more than a feet every minute!

Traffic drama, Covered Bridge Festival, Brazil, IN
Glenn Campbell sang “By the Time I Get to Phoenix”. It was a good song, melancholy but true. Our situation nearly inspired a newer version, “By the Time We Get to Parke County”. But we resisted. Instead, we began (in the car which I was driving) playing the game “At least…”
Have you ever played? Said game involves a level of pathos: you are stuck in a situation, annoying if not unbearable; but rather than give-in to urges to curse, swear, or lower oneself to negative self-pity and even verbal annoyance with one’s companions, you find that “at least” you aren’t somewhere else, annoyed or perturbed by something else. And so, in this case: “At least we’re not in a plane, circling over O’Hare International, fourth tier-up and wondering if we will land or crash (the latter due to insufficient fuel). And again: “At least we are not that cow in the pasture having to stare at all these human beings in their noisome, smelly vehicular contrivances which disturb our cud-chewing”. And yet again: “At least we have one another to while-away these minutes (hours?) together, enjoying the savored family time”.
Amidst “At least….”, we discovered another pass-time. It’s called the “Can you believe that asshole?” (Editor’s Note: The use of this word in this blog was long-debated among the Siblings; arguments both pro and con were advanced. The editor listened to all, musing the consequences both ethical [censored], grammatical [proper] and politically correct [b--l---t]. Substitutions were allowed for consideration — annal, ventral orifice, butt, butthole, posterior vent, a-hole. It was even advanced that raqah or “fool” would do — but biblical proscription [Sermon on the Mount] quickly set that aside. Evidently, the editor found the original most fitting!) It all began with…
a simple need for communication between the two vehicles in our group. Stalled somewhere south of Brazil, Mary removed herself from the back seat of the lead car and went to check on the mental health of the occupants of our other car (remember, John was back there, the “opining one”, questioning the duration of our trek; memories of vacation trips, with such opining by John commencing after only 10 miles, loomed large). The well-being of all ascertained, Mary the consoler was no more than 10 feet from regaining the lead car when, lo and behold, there was small (and brief) movement ahead — and this “asshole” behind our second car honked his horn in irritation that we were holding up the line!
I am sad to report for the Siblings (Jeanette, too) that more than one such individual needed to be reported and so named in our day’s trek!
Our traverse through Brazil behind, we rocketed forward for a mile, only to be slowed to a crawl and then to a halt no less than thrice (State Police traffic control at varied intersections was the culprit. We were sorely tempted at the first such crossing to report a certain “horn happy” individual; we refrained). In the midst of one of our crawls, we passed over into Parke County, a truly paschal moment!
Soon enough we left Indiana 59 (by way of a right) for a picnic spot. The Army Corps of Engineers were our hosts at Cecil M. Harden Dam and Lake in Parke County. Bereft of any yard sale, garage sale, rummage sale, in fact of anything remotely connected with the sprawl of the Covered Bridge Festival, this small flood control and wildlife area was perfect for us! Except….
for the wind! Oh, my goodness! It had to be clocking 30 miles per hour, with gusts fiercer. But we braved it — finding waves upon the lake, few leaves upon the trees, and a picnic area (though lower than the parking lot and presumably less windblown) a challenge for paper plates or plastic forks! But, “At least… we had a place to eat, walk about, and experience together”. And John didn’t get lost!

Cecil M. Harden Dam / Lake, Parke County, IN

John returning from artifact hunting
Well-fed, windblown, we retreated to our vehicles. Soon enough we came upon an actual covered bridge (what we set out for oh so long ago!)
Billie Creek is a village, a preservation site for Parke County of historically significant structures. It is open year-round and well cared for.
Unfolding ourselves from our cars (those older joints just don’t function like they used to), admission tickets we purchased and entry was imminent. But we lost Jeanette as she conversed with some gentlemen selling “Indian Corn” (tri-color corn). John explained: once she is thus engaged, she enters into her inquisitive “I love to rendezvous in 1840′s clothing, regalia, and learn more and more of the former way of life which I love to live on weekends with my husband, daughter and son-in-law, my grandchildren and friends….” John said to let her be. And so we did. She did eventually catch us up!
It seems appropriate to allow you, the patient reader, to simply gather what you can from the photos and captions below which are the result of our meanderings through the village.

Beeson Bridge, entrance to Billie Creek Village

Beeson Bridge interior

Log cabin with crafts, leather and bead work

St. Joseph Church, erected 1886, moved to Billie Creek Village 1971, when new parish church erected

Sanctuary of old St. Joseph Church, with many original furnishings

Covered Bridge Courier Office

One Room School House

Union Baptist Church, built and dedicated 1859, moved to Billie Creek Village 1981

Billie Creek Bridge, Billie Creek Village (in use, with a caution: Cross this bridge at a walk). On its original site.
This pictorial presentation of Billie Creek Village is nowhere near exhaustive; there are more buildings, indeed a “working farm”. But the travelers were getting exhausted. It was time to move on. Of course, gathering everyone into one place (Jeanette! Where are you?) proved a challenge. When finally accomplished, we gained our vehicles and were off, one mile west, to Rockville, the very heart of the Parke County, the Covered Bridge Festival, and the sight of….
Another traffic jam!

Rockville. Oh, no, not again!?
To return to Poland, Indiana and Wasatch Lake required a driver familiar with the territory: me. Happily, Francester (you know, the one with two names?) dutifully followed in car #2 through Rockville, down U.S. 41, to Clinton Avenue through to Fort Harrison Road (in Terre Haute; shhh, the priest is back….), then to Fruitridge, left onto U.S. 40, right onto Indiana 46, and then left to Indiana 42 right back to Owl Hollow Road (hooray!)

The backside of the lead driver. His better side? How big are those ears?! Hmm...
The sight of the gate to Wasatch Lake was most welcome. Our time had been fun, but face it: we were weary. It was time to take in the lake (breathing however each best saw fit), putting up some feet (not to eat, just to rest), and beginning the process of food preparation.
The lake was enticing in the evening light, but the comfort of the living / dining / kitchen area moreso.

Esther (lounging), Jeanette reading (just out of picture), John, Mary, Martha and Fran (preparing), Rick behind the camera, and Jessica Lynn safely in her guinea cage (another room)
Supper was delicious. The fire roared along, tended by John, then Jeanette. And then out came the pictures — photos in albums, on laptop screens and phone screens! Some ranged the entire year (Fran, Martha); others were events specific (Frances, Mary, Jeanette); and mine were all over the sabbatical (the last to be viewed and the ones which invited us to discontinue this photographic orgy and flee to our beds — after the pie and ice-cream, of course!)
Sunday. (For the first two hours of this day, re-read the first two paragraphs of Saturday. Creatures of habit we are.)
Once all were properly primped, we gathered in the living room for Mass, the 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time. Fran was cantor, Martha and Esther lectors, Rick presider, and Mary sacristan / server. This focused time in prayer is always one of the highlights of our annual gathering — time to remember our blessings (especially our family, Martin and Ellen, Ann; our spouses, children, grandchildren; friends and colleagues) and to give thanks and praise to God for all that we are and have available for our use in this life. It is ever a “cozy” 45 minutes, un-rushed, purposeful, and necessary.
Following lunch, the afternoon was filled with games (bucket toss, at which Martha is the champion) a fire to warm out hearts and hands, as it was windy and cooler, paired hikings, and even canoe excursions (no one got wet!)

Sunday afternoon, the Lake

Fire in the pit by which to warm one's hands and heart

Jeanette, John and Frances coming in
Eventually we repaired to a large field across the road so that we could enjoy some archery. It was two years ago at Siblings’ Weekend when John brought multiple bows and arrows for our enjoyment. Some of us adept at this sport; others are just fun to watch as the arrow flies piercing air and grass with an occasional “twack” in the target. There are always cheers and congratulations for those “twacks”. John and Jeanette, our 1840 Rendezvous denizens, are by far the best shots, John seldom missing the target as he draws back with ease and strength to let fly, Jeanette launching arrow and fletch with poise and accuracy (and acting as accomplished instructor). The only “oh no!” heard occurred when Jeanette’s arrow sliced into one of John’s, damaging fletch and shaft!
Trekking back to the cabin, supper became our focus (we do eat a good deal, don’t we). This particular meal was the crowning moment — pork loin and all the fixings. Many hands make quick work, and soon enough we were sitting down to a fine repast.
For some reason we never got around to Yahtzee or Farkel — in fact, if my memory serves, we lounged about the fire with stories and jibes. This is probably a sign of our aging, for never in my memory have we eschewed these dice-centered games. Ah, well. Next year at Esther’s lagoon house in Miller, IN.
Monday. What can be said of the fourth day of Siblings’ Weekend other than we rose, broke our fast, cleansed both self and cabin, dressed, packed, divided the spoils (the left-over food and supplies), and some filtered the air in a unique way.

Mary and John: soon we will leave
By 10:30am, Martha was on the road to Poplar Grove. By 11:oo am, Esther and Fran were bound for Indianapolis and Rick for St. Meinrad (both by a most ingenious route which began left when it should have begun right! Thanks, Francesther, for the ride). Soon to follow were Mary (with Jessica Lynn), and John and Jeanette returning to Indianapolis.
Epilogue. Martha said it very well during our time this year and ending our time on Monday: Thank you, Martin and Ellen (our parents), for imbuing us with a love for each other, a liking of each other, and a joy in being ever connected and interested in the pilgrimage of our individual lives! We are so blessed to have each other, bound uniquely one to another and each to the whole which we are. Our time together is precious, completing us in a way which only family can. One of our greatest joys, as we have grown in age, wisdom and grace, are these weekends together.
For all of life and love, we thank our God who created us, sustains us, and gives us promise of life together, now and into eternity.